I usually coast and enjoy it until they decide they want to become "official." How soon are you sleeping with the guys?Maybe you're thinking they want more before they actually want more, so that scares them off?but i just wanna know the norm for this- is it the norm to be chill about it and coast and just hope that i'll get lucky like you did and he'll "ask me out" after we've already slept together, or do i come out and say on the third date "by the way i only sleep with guys if we're in a committed relationship" or is that weird??
It’s dangerous to try the benefits of marriage when you’re dating.
I usually just don't care and that makes them more interested.
Or when I'm totally not interested, they are very interested. He wanted to call me his girlfriend very soon though, on date 3.
That legal stuff, well, you can try it while you’re dating, but it’s not advisable.
I could list story after story of couples who were dating, and attempted to combine their bank accounts and their end of life preparations where it turned into a disaster.