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Lol I can be firm and dominant when needed but tend to be much more of a loving daddy than anything else. There's no harm in talking and seeing what happens..... I’m currently in the middle of training myself for butt plugs and anal. The one thing that needs to be remembered is that I am a carer for my mum so patience is needed.
Exploration and desire to experiment as we discover our true kinks is desired.
I am new to the 'official' scene but have been interested in kinks and BDSM for as long as I can remember.
I have a fetish for unusual requests and watersports.. Message me slave and you will be granted my mobile number.
Xx It has taken me a long time to become the person I am, it has taken a lot of pain, mostly not mine, Chuckle. I started off thinking that I am a true sadist, as a guy who likes to spank and restrain a willing sub, I thought that was all I was?