You say that you give him everything he needs sexually, emotionally, physically and mentally. you’re basically saying that you’re his perfect dream girl.
Maybe what you meant is that you’re giving him everything *you think* he needs sexually, emotionally, etc. Oftentimes, we love other people in the way that we want to be loved – and while you make certain adjustments toward him since he’s a dude, it’s not safe to bet that you’re satisfying his every need…
You chose him – you knew what kind of an animal he was when you started going out.
It’s not like one morning he just went out and started having sexy flirtations with other women all of a sudden and you were shocked. but secretly you hoped and believed that he would change for you.
My old boyfriend and I have resumed our exclusive relationship.
My point in all this is that if you believe that you’re meeting all his needs, you will be blind to areas where the relationship needs to grow.
Do you know what’s at the core of why women put up with behavior they find unacceptable? The reality of it is that if you want to mentally and emotionally be in a place where you have any say in your relationship, you have to diminish your fear of loss.
Let me shift your attention to the fact that you this guy.
If you want the relationship to move forward, find deeper areas where you can reach him and inspire him.
But let’s take a completely different side of this…